Relationship Tips: These Things Can Change When You Get Married, Know More About Them...


Marriage is one of life's milestones, marking a major change in a couple's life. Which may be why some delay marriage longer than others. They may not be ready for all that the married life brings. Besides the obvious things like changing names, gaining in-laws, joining bank accounts, what other changes can couples expect when they make the move from being boyfriend and girlfriend, to husband and wife? Here are the things that change when you get married that you may not have thought of:


# Shift in Identity
The social expectations associated with marriage alter the way that partners think about themselves. Assuming the role of husband and wife is one of the most important social roles. In studies, husbands and wives place their family identity as the most important aspect in their sense of self.

# Feeling Grounded
Many couples report a sense of calm and relief knowing that they're no longer alone once their vows are said. There becomes a feeling of security and a true partnership.

# Spiritual Reconnection
After an engagement or marriage, many couples become spiritual and return to the religions of their youth, says licensed marriage and family therapist. Couples become deeply grateful for having found their life and soul mate and desire to reconnect to their God or religious community. Couples also feel more connected to their families and childhood friends.

# Compromising
You will suddenly realize how good you get at negotiating. Every decision, whether it's about finances or family, is made with both people in mind." Compromising is crucial when building a future together. We must move out of the self-absorbed stage into a mature place of selflessness.


# Lust to Love
In the beginning lust fuels the relationship and is often mistaken for love. For the love to last, it must transform into respect and appreciation for the wholeness of the other person. For the long-term, these feelings transcend time, physical beauty, and health and financial stability.

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